Top Ten: Reasons I love Manda

Manda and I have two anniversaries. Today is one of them. Four years ago today, we began.

So. Here are 10 reasons I love Manda. (Please forgive the cheesiness and possible sappiness that will follow)

1. Her southern accent. She can get away with saying anything she wants, as long as there is a drawl to it.

2. The girl can dance. And I don't mean on tables or around poles. Though I'd be OK with that. :o) She's got more rhythm in her pinky than I have in my whole body.

3. She is methodical to a fault. Brushing her teeth consists of 10 steps. Tucking in her shirt consists of two steps per layer. Washing her hands consists of 8 steps. And on. And on.

3 & 1/2. Her thumb nails. She keeps them longer than the rest. I don't know why she does this. I've never asked her. But I don't care why.

4. She is magnetic. I am drawn to her.

5. She makes me feel safe. And not because she keeps a gun on her nightstand. (though that helps)

5 & 1/2. Her face when she finds something genuinely amusing. It lights up. Her eyes twinkle.

6. She folds my laundry perfectly. When I fold clothes, they end up wrinkled. When she folds clothes, they don't. It's almost like a hidden talent.

7. She is honest. If I ask her "do these pants make me look fat?" She will tell me if they do. And because she says it in her cute southern accent, it doesn't offend me.

7 & 1/2. Her sense of self. She knows who she is. And she is proud of it.

8. She puts up with my infatuation with Ellen DeGeneres. Seriously. You have no idea how much patience this requires.

9. She is beautiful.

9 & 1/2. She is open. She is uncensored. She just is.

10. She has no sense of direction. None. Nadda. Zero. Getting phone calls that start with "how do I get home from

here

?"... Only she doesn't know where

here

is.

Happy anniversary Babe.

Peace Out.

Ouch.

Garrison. My pride and joy. My little man. I call him "Handsome". He's a dog.

Really

, though. He's our son. (He must have gotten the full body hair gene from someone else.)

Garrison loves to run. Unfortunately, our townhouse doesn't have a backyard, patio or anything close to that. When we first moved in, he attempted to run around the coffee and dining tables. However, wood floors are not known for their traction. After falling over, slamming into walls and embarrassing himself countless times, he now avoids the wood floors. Instead, he hops from rug to rug when he's excited or wants to play. It is actually very cute.

Due to the lack of a backyard, Garrison has grown to love the dog park. His weekly visits are the highlight of his week. I didn't think dogs kept track of what day it was, but he always knows when it's Sunday.

This past Sunday, he was running around with 3 of his friends... Sorry, don't know their names. I know, I shouldn't let our son play with kids I don't even know, but they looked harmless. I don't think they were members of a gang or using drugs. Actually, I don't think Garrison knows their names either. After all, he identifies them by how their butts smell. According to him they're "had diarrhea earlier", "sweaty balls" and "needs to douche".

Anyways, he was running around with his friends. We didn't know he had gymnastic abilities. He launched into some sort of cartwheel, round off back handspring,

with a twist

... only he didn't stick the landing. I personally would have given him a score of 8 if he hand just stuck the landing.

A few minutes later, we noticed him limping around. Upon further inspection, we noticed a tear/cut in the pad of his paw.

It was none-life-threatening. More like a really horrid paper cut. Yet we had absolutely no idea how to fix it. Good thing his doctor's office is just down the street from the dog park AND open on Sundays. 

One hundred and fifty dollars... yes $150... later, he is bandaged up, given a weeks worth of antibiotics and sent home with pain killers. (Really. I thought it was a little much.)

He's only managed to remove his bandage once, which resulted in us wrapping his leg with athletic tape. He hasn't managed to get that off yet. But he is smart. I have no doubt he'll figure that one out.

Peace Out.

Top Ten Tuesdays.

So, Sina (a good friend since we were roommates in college) started "Top Ten Tuesdays".  Basically, every Tuesday she does a different top ten list. She now has a bunch of us copying her. She is such a trend setter. :o)

I am behind the times, last week's topic was "Albums". Here's my list.

1. Ten, Pearl Jam: My very first CD. It has been a part of every major event in my life since I was 12. It was the beginning of something.

2. The Crossing, Meg Hutchinson: This CD just is. I can listen to it from beginning to end, anytime of the day, no matter my mood. I'll never tire of this album.

3. The Other Side, Melissa Ferrick: Although I fell in love with her music years ago, this album was the first of her's that I truly connected with. It's amazing how you can listen to music and feel as if someone channeled you to write it.

4. Details, Frou Frou: I discovered this album during one of the hardest times in my life. It was a life saver.

5. Fortune Cookies, Alana Davis: I been singing along to this CD for 5 years... and I'm not done yet! When I'm in the mood to listen to something and I don't know what, this is often my choice.

6. The Hits, Reo Speedwagon & Gold - Greatest Hits, ABBA: These CDs just make me happy and remind me of my first major, real unreciprocated crush in college. Plus, they are classics!

7. Jagged Little Pill, Alanis Morissette: This defined my high school years. It brought me together with all the other jaded women in the world wanting to be heard. Even now, my inner-angry-biotch needs to vent.

8. Live at the Acropolis, Yanni: I don't want any crap for this album. I love it, because my parents loved it. I listen to it and am instantaneously ported back to my childhood.

9. Sogno, Andrea Bocelli: Just a timeless album... and the only opera I like.

10. Melt, Rascal Flatts: When I want to feel, I listen to this. I fell in love to this album.

Scorpion Fun.

Ok, so I get this phone call at work from Lindsay.  She is giggling and can't explain why.  Of course, that makes me start giggling.  Linds goes on to explain the story you just read about the scorpion.

I laughed so hard I almost cried.  Then it settled in that I might have walked right over the icky critter on my way out the door for work.  *shudder*  I now have the bug man on speed dial!

Man, she was seriously mad at me for 2 hours after our little interaction with the critter.  I mean, tell me, what would you do if a "dead" scorpion came to life and jumped up at you?  You would push it away from you, right?  Ok, just making sure.  Is it really my fault the place it ended up was on her chest?  =o)

L8R.
Manda

Screaming like a girl.

Crickets. We've had a big problem with crickets. A fun evening activity was chasing the little bastards around with our hand held vacuum and sucking them up as they jumped about. You should try this. It is entertaining and strangely satisfying.

Looking back, the disappearance of the crickets should have raised some alarms. It didn't though. I was just thankful they were no longer dive bombing us from the ceiling while we slept.

Do you know what type of critters eat other critters who eat crickets? I didn't. Until recently, when I meet one.

Every morning Manda leaves before I do. Due to our different schedules, I handle the dogs before I leave for work. This particular morning, I was participating in a conference call on my cell phone. I was just putting the dogs up, when I noticed "it" on the tile.

I thought it was a smashed cricket at first. A large one. So. Naturally. I leaned in closer to get a good look. It wasn't a smashed cricket. Not a cricket at all. It was a scorpion laying on its back all curled up.

Did my heart quicken a bit? Yes. I've lived here in the desert for most of my years . This is the first time one of these critters moved in. But it was on its back, curled up. Surely, it was dead.

Because I was in a hurry, and slightly distracted by my conference call, I grabbed a few tissues from the bathroom and lightly picked it up. I say lightly because I really didn't want to touch the thing.

I should have had a game plan before I picked it up. Now I'm standing in the laundry room trying to decide what to do with it. Do I flush it? Do I throw it outside? Do I keep it for Manda to see?

I was running these options through my head when I looked down to see the scorpion crawling over the side of the tissue.

This is where I screamed like a girl. Threw the tissue down. And ran the other direction. Even looked over my shoulder to see if it was chasing me. (I'm not proud that I looked over my shoulder... but I'm honest about being a pansy-ass) 

After I'd achieved a safe distance from the 2 inch monster, I remembered I'm on a conference call. Thankfully the phone was muted.

I was now in a panic. It was alive. AND it was on the move. Thankfully, I'm like MacGyver. Super resourceful. I grabbed a glass candle holder out of the entry way, took a deep breath, channeled my inner ninja and trapped the scorpion.

Fast forward 11 hours. Manda gets home. I'm all excited to show her what I caught. She already knew the story. It was on its back. I thought it was dead... scream... run. etc.

I took the top off the candle holder. She looked down, saw it laying on its back and said. "oh it's dead." The next part happened in slow motion.

I started to say "no, it's alive". But dammit. I wasn't fast enough. As "noooo" was resonating through the air, her hand made contact with the side of the container. (You might be wondering "why smack the side of the container?" Apparently this is a widely accepted method for testing the deadness of critters.)

In response to the jolt, the scorpion popped up to say hi. Springy little sucker, it almost cleared the top of the container. Manda screamed. Then shoved the container into my chest. Apparently in attempt to protect HERSELF.

I am now screaming. This wasn't supposed to happen this way.

I channeled my inner ninja for the second time that day and slammed the lid down on the candle holder. All I can think to say is: "I am so mad at you right now."  Then I stormed upstairs.

It was two hours before my heart calmed down. Two hours of not speaking to Manda. Two hours of Manda saying "it was a reaction! I'm sorry!".

You know where that scorpion is now? Still in that same candle holder in the entry way. I don't know what to do with the stupid thing. And I'm sure as hell not taking the lid off with Manda around!

Peace Out.

Click. Forward.

As I mentioned before. I recently aged a year. Not that aging happens in one year chunks. I mean, we're constantly getting older. However, my age-ometer doesn't have decimal places. I don't have the digital model... It's an all or nothing thing. I'm either 27 or 28. Not 27.2834.

So. Yeah. I'm older. My birthday actually occurred while we were in Seattle. Exploring a new place with my favorite person in the world was a fun way to celebrate.

Initially, I thought this new year was no big thing. However, I'm beginning to think I smile too much... Last week I noticed smile lines on my face. Either they weren't there before or my eyesight is actually improving with age.

Other than the wrinkles, everything else seems to be in working order. My biceps are still so big. I am actually more comfortable in my wrinkling skin this year than last year. I guess the more skin wrinkles the more comfortable it is... The easier it is to smile and laugh.

People keep telling me that my thirties will be the best. That women only get better in their 30's... You might be wondering. Is it possible for me to get ANY better? Is there any room for improvement? Yes. Just ask Manda. :o) Good thing she loves all of me. Including my wrinkles.

Peace Out.

Excuse me?!

That's right.....that would be my girl you are rubbing on!

The nerve of some women!  Seriously!

I just wish I could had been there to see the look on Lindsay's face when that happened.  Lindsay is not what you would call a touchy, feely kind of gal.  To have someone she barely knows encroaching on her personal space is crossing the line, much less touching her "biceps".......that would have been hilarious.

Can't say that I was thrilled with it, but it was amusing nonetheless.

L8R.
Manda

Occasionally. Things get awkward.

Disclaimer: this 5 minute interaction with Ms. Wandering Hands was more comical than anything else. She was drunk and I'll probably never see her again. Which is good. Good because I don't feel like being felt by her. :o) 

On occasion, people find me attractive. I'm not saying it happens often. Just saying it happens.

Recently, I was out with friends. Sans Manda. Which means I was without a buffer. I had to fend for myself. I'm not very good at fending.

Not long into the evening she approached. Her. Ms. Wandering Hands. The molestor.

I didn't feel threatened by her. Not her presence. Not her lack of recognition of my personal space. But then again. I have a weakness for cute girls with southern accents.

"Can I buy you a drink?" ... that's how it harmlessly started. I had a full glass in my hand. Maybe she didn't notice it? I'm pretty smooth. I replied with, "No thanks. I'm good."  I think she needed confirmation of my goodness. Why else would her hand find its way onto my forearm? Not in a casual way. More in a "your skin is so soft" kind of way. Don't know if you're familiar with this method. It requires friction. Rubbing up and down.

I managed to gently extract my forearm from her grasp. Relief. That's what I felt. This isn't awkward. It would be okay.

No it wouldn't. Turns out I have such strong biceps. I must work out. Or at least that's what she told me. I do work out. So I flexed for her. She was impressed. I don't mean to brag, but I can bench press like 50 pounds. I'm just saying.

My bra size. That's what she was trying to figure out. Maybe she needed to borrow a bra. Maybe hers didn't fit right. Maybe she was thinking of getting implants and my size looked good. She might have been shy. Too shy to simply ask. Regardless, she attempted a hands on examination of my goods.

Normally, I like to help people out. I'm a giver. I sometimes cry at Hallmark commercials. I care. I feel for others. Turns out, others feeling for me can be awkward. Really awkward.

Like I said, I'm smooth. I have reflexes like a cat. I only froze for like 5 seconds. Ten tops. It's really all a blur. I know I smiled. She smiled. I think she thought I was going to give up my size. Instead, I handed her hands back to her and walked away.

Kind of anti-climatic. I realize this. But when you're as smooth as me, actions speak louder than words. I am confident she got the message I was sending. "You totally didn't say please first!"

Manda was ecstatic when I told her about the girl who wanted to know my bra size. Really though. I think her laughter sounded a little forced.

Peace Out.

Lonely?

Alone.  Bored.  Nothing to do.  How do you pass the time?  I had to figure that out while Lindsay was in Seattle.  What did I do, you ask?

Had parties.  Slept around.  All the typical things you do when you are all alone and bored, right?  Riiiight.

Honestly, I worked long hours and counted the minutes until I could talk to my girl.  I was a miserable mess without her here.  =o(

I did get to take my first trip to Seattle on Lindsay's birthday.  That was a good time.  Got to mingle with the locals and sample the local culture.  Would definitely go back.

L8R.
Manda

Cruising.

On occasion I travel for my profession. Not every lung transplant happens locally. (Who knew?)  There were half a dozen lungs needing new homes in Seattle. I decided to help them move in.

Although I reserved a Porsche with the rental car company. They were idiots. A ford focus? You're kidding. Please be kidding. Surely you have something larger. Something that doesn't depend on hamsters to move.

Lindsay. Meet Freda. Freda's a ford focus.

Sexy. That's what Freda was. The green paint contrasted nicely with the blue waters and concrete freeways. Plus, as I mentioned earlier, Freda matched my eyes.

It rained. Freda handled the slicks and puddles well. A hydroplane here or there is good for blood circulation. Not to mention my fellow drivers enjoyed the opportunities to flip me off and honk their horns. Within days, my nickname was "learn how to drive!"... *sigh*... the memories.

Manda spent the weekend with me. She was fortunate to spend time with Freda. Since my hotel was actually outside of Seattle, Freda escorted us across Lake Washington several times. Because Freda was so well built, I didn't even notice the bridge across Lake Washington was a floating bridge. You'd think "floating... surely you got sea sick". Maybe in lesser cars. But not in Freda. I didn't bob up and down. Not once.

Manda and I had a blast zipping around. Freda was so agile. First to expensive restaurants. Then to the Seattle Aquarium (cute little fishies). Next to the Space Needle (The name is misleading. It is not in space. I kind of felt ripped off.) Eventually we found our way to the Seattle Underground. (It was underground. No misleading there) Sure we were tourists... but with Freda's Washington license plate, we felt like locals.

Freda was so different from the others I've driven. There wasn't an awkward period in the beginning. We clicked right away. She was perky. Eager to please. She had tight curves. Sure her head lights weren't as large as others, but she was beautiful on the inside. You could ease her gently or make her squeal. When I begged her to stop, she did. She was just so responsive. *sigh*

Seattle was great. Sure. I spent a good chunk of time moving lungs around. But then Freda spent a lot of time moving me around. Having Manda there to experience new things with me made it even better.

Manda. Freda. Me. Almost sounds like a kinky 3some.

Peace Out.

Lindsay

Absence makes what?

Ok...so I have been neglecting this blog too. It's hard to schedule bloggin time in when you're this popular. I mean, between Ellen, Angelina and Eva....who has time for anything else? Those three can't keep their hands off me, and who can, I mean really?

No...seriously, life just comes at you fast sometimes. Nothing fun or exciting to report. Just life.

I did make my first trip to Seattle. What a cool place.

Well, that thing called life is beckoning. Write more later on my antics while Lindsay was out of town.

L8R,
Manda

I missed you too.

Neglect. That's what I've done to this blog. It is lonely. It never gets any attention from me. I am a bad blogger. My only consolation in this is that it is partially Manda's fault. She's been neglecting the blog too.

What have I been up to? My life is mundane and boring... All bragging aside. I did drive a sweet Ford Focus around Seattle for two weeks. It matched my eyes. It was green.

My age-ometer clicked forward one year. This is the oldest I've ever been. It's new and exciting. And I did get molested by a stranger. A cute, well mannered stranger. Manda was thrilled when I told her. Super thrilled. Thrilled in the way people are when they aren't thrilled at all. :o)

The edge of your seat. That's where you're sitting right now. I'll try not to make you balance there too long.

Be back soon.

Peace Out.
Lindsay

First Glance.

No ad-libbing or exaggeration?  Accurate and spot on memory?  You're so cute.

It does seem as if it was lifetimes ago that I lived in Alabama and was married.  Yes.  I said married.  I know, you need another moment, right?

<---------- insert a moment here. 

LOL
....I will never forget our first telephone conversation.  You totally acted like a little school girl, giggling.  I believe my response to you was, of course I have an accent, I am from the South!  We certainly had a connection the moment we "met."  (You should know to never under estimate the power of a Southern Girl's charm.)

Ahhhh, the online community was a life changing occurrence in my life.  A group of about 10 of us got together to put faces with names.  Linds was supposed to fly into Birmingham and travel by car with me to meet the rest of the ladies.  Turns out, the weather didn't cooperate and she got to our destination before I did.  So, I pulled up in my car, then got out and observed the scenery.  I wanted to check out this "Token Straight Girl", TSG, if you will.  My first thoughts: she's cute, and so gay.  (TSG, my ass!)

Getting to know her was a blast.  We became fast friends, best friends, talking on the phone daily and laughing until we cried!  (Lindsay, my dear, I hate to spoil your fantasy, but I wouldn't say I had the "hots" for you from the beginning......ok, so I had a crush, just a small one though.)  After all, she was straight, right? =o)  Boy was she a flirt, a SERIOUS flirt.  Nothing like being a lesbian and having one of your "straight" friends flirt with you like this.  We were sharing a hotel room with a couple other friends.  Lindsay and I were sharing a bed and Lindsay decides to roll over on me!  Grinning the whole time.  Not once.  Not twice.  THREE TIMES!!  Oh, and how many lesbians have their "straight" friends ask..."do you think I would be a good kisser?"  Yes, I squirmed.  I almost came out of my skin.  Squirm, squirm, squirm!

I will never forget the moment we realized we were more than friends.  *sigh*  That moment changed my life forever.  I never thought my flight from Birmingham would land that day.  Our six hour first date was by far more earth shattering than any date I have ever been on.  *grin* And for me, that date was also the first time we really met.

L8R.
Manda

Fancy meeting you here.

People often ask how Manda and I met. Well. It was over 4 years ago. And since I never exaggerate, my memory will be spot on. Accurate as can be. No ad-libbing here.

Many lifetimes ago, Manda lived in Alabama and I dated men. Strange I know. I'm practically the poster child for lesbian stereotypes. I'll give you a moment to recover from your shock.

a moment.

I met Manda for the first time twice. Once on the phone. Once in person. We both belonged to the same online community. Yes. Online. If you think that is bad, get this. It was a Lifetime TV message board. Horrible I know. Apparently, I was lacking some "wife beating, I have a stalker, ride off into the sunset" drama in my life. I now take a vitamin for this previous deficiency.

The first time I heard her voice on the phone, my stomach did a flip. Hook. Line. Sinker. She sounded cute. Really cute. My first words to her were smooth. Really smooth. "*giggle* you have an accent". Its a wonder she didn't hang up on me. She started something though. Cute girls with southern accents continue to be a weakness. *sigh*

A group from our online community decided to meet in person... Is this a good time to mention they were all lesbians? They liked women. They slept with women. They were gay. I, however, was one of those "straight" people everyone knew was gay. Everyone except me. I mean I knew, but didn't know. Confused? Good. I was too.

Our first face-to-face moments were not nearly as earth shattering as our first phone conversation. I simply watched her get out of her car. Dramatic? I think not. My thoughts were purely observational. She's short. She's cute. The other women may have gasped. Or drooled. Not me.

We hit it off as friends. We talked almost everyday. I personally think she had the hots for me from the start. Looking at me all "sappy eyed". Secretly undressing me with her eyes. And to make things more interesting, I was a flirt. I loved watching her squirm. And boy did she squirm. While we shared a bed one night, I may or may not have rolled on top of her. More than once. Squirm. I may or may not have asked her if she thought I'd be a good kisser. Squirm. Squirm.

Flash forward 5 months or so. I am out. I am proud. I pick Manda up from the airport. She flew in from Birmingham for our first official date. She could only stay for six hours. We made the best out of our time. *smile* I like to think of this trip as the first time we really met.

I wonder how different her version of the story will be?

Peace Out.

Grand Jury Duty.

I could hardly sleep last night I was so stressed out. I've never actually had to show up for jury duty before, let alone GRAND jury duty. Usually, I call this wonderful 1-800 number, enter my jury pool number and they inform me my services are not required. No such option this time.

I wasn't even sure what to wear... Do I dress up for this ? (I haven't worn my prom dress in years) Or do I dress down? (ratty jeans will make me look less desirable)... I opted for my standard work attire. I did however splurge when it came to my make up... foundation was applied before my normal fare of powder. No splurging when it came to my lip-wear. Standard chapstick please.

Thanks to the nifty map provided, I was able to track down the "free juror" parking garage with only a few mishaps. I think it is healthy to drive the wrong way on a one-way street. It gets the heart pumping. Blood flow is good. You know what else is good for blood flow? Parking on level 5 and opting for the stairs instead of the elevator. In fact, I was feeling so good when I landed on the ground floor, I started walking the wrong direction. It only took half a block to realize I was an idiot.

After getting my internal compass adjusted, I found the courthouse easily. Of course the "Superior Court Jurors go this way" signs helped a lot. After I found my way to the juror area, there was only one obstacle left between me and the herd of people I belonged to. Security. No problem right? Wrong. I should have completely disrobed like I do when going through airport security. Silly me to think it wouldn't be as strict.

After my strip search and rectal exam, I was finally joined with my people. The romantic notion I had in my head of what jury duty would be ... the lights, the cameras... well, it was boring. We all sat around and did nothing. Nothing. For an hour and a half. Nothing. Then, I was notified I would be juror #33. Exciting! Juror 33. My official title.

So myself, my good buddy Juror 58... oh and all the others, Jurors 1-60, found ourselves on the 8th floor, crowded into a small, yet impressive court room. "Please stand for Judge ..." It was just like TV. Being sworn in. The court reporter interrupting because she has A.D.D. and isn't paying attention "can you please repeat what you said after..."

After a lot of procedure, the fun began. This was my chance to be interrogated by a superior court judge. A cute one even. I wasn't going to pass up my opportunity. So, I waited for my chance. I couldn't speak up when she asked about "medical reasons why you can't serve"... I thought of mentioning the rash, but blushed at the thought of having to explain how I got it. I opted instead to speak up when questioned about "financial/work reasons for not being able to serve".

The 30 seconds of questioning went by too fast. "you are the only one at your hospital who can perform a full lung transplant?"... "yes ma'am"... it was amazing. She kept shooting the questions at me and I just hit them out of the park. I was shaking as I sat down. My blood was really pumping now. If only I could do this every day!

The other jurors weren't as cool as me. I felt for them. A few felt they couldn't serve because "their kid might get sick", or "sometimes I watch my grandchildren". I wanted to pull them aside and let them know they were of below average intelligence. Ignorance is bliss however. I decided to let them live a blissful existence.

I was excused due to my incredibly skillful hands. Turns out my career as a Grand Jury Juror lasted only three and a half hours. If only I wasn't so crucial to the well being of society, I might have been able to spend more time immersed in the glitz and glamor of juror life. The judge, the lights, the court reporter... the other jurors. Jury duty really was exciting.

As I exited the courthouse, I noticed a free shuttle to the juror parking garage. Free! AND it was air conditioned! The perks just kept coming. It was only after I arrived back at the parking garage and remembered "level 5. no elevator." that my enthusiasm level deflated.

Peace Out.
Lindsay

Airport Antics.

OK, so it couldn't get worse?  HA....the trip from hell had only just begun.

After Lindsay decided to try re-arranging the skin on her fingers via a fast moving dog leash, we left for the airport.  We stopped to get a quick bite to eat before trudging through security.  Taco Bell was the fast, cheap, easy and on the way decision.  We order our usual, 3 crunchy tacos each and a drink to share.  The drink request was Sierra Mist.  You know how you have your mouth all prepared for one thing and take a big ole drink of it?.....then SURPRISE, it's actually Pepsi!  Yeah, it was interesting.)

So, we pull into the parking garage to begin the unbelievably fun task of finding a parking spot when all of a sudden, out of NO WHERE, this guy in his P.O.S. little Honda Accord comes flying out of his parking spot backward.  "Jerk Face" (this is the cleaned up version of what I actually called him) didn't even look before he pulled a Jeff Gordon in reverse and almost took us out.  Of course we did the same thing any normal person would do, honked the horn and gave the evil eye.  Well, "Jerk Face" laughed and flipped us off!  FLIPPED US OFF!!  Can you believe that?  *sigh*  My blood pressure just shot up thinking about it.

Alright, where was I, "Jerk Face" got me all discombobulated...so, we get inside the airport and stand in line to get through security when the TSA Nazi's confiscate half our toiletries.  Who knew they changed the ounce requirements.  Who knew having a 5 oz bottle of lotion that was only half full was "against the rules?"  We wait in line, go through the cattle call that is necessary to board any Southwest flight.  All this with only a minor 30 - 45 minute delay.  (if you travel at all, you know a 30 - 45 minute delay is fantastic!)  We pick our seats and settle in for the "long" flight to Vegas.  Ahhh, finally we will be able to relax and get ready to throw down in Sin City, right?  RIIIIGHT.  We're airborne and the flight attendant gets everyone their drinks, typical flight shenanigans.  Suddenly, there is a shuffling noise, three heads in the seats in front of us pop up....then, Lindsay's feet, my feet and both of our backpacks are covered in Vodka Tonic.  My disbelief is only compounded when I hear what one of the "Intellectually Challenged Klutz's" say, "Uh, the plane like, just went up."  (Ok, let me think about this for a second....first of all, I don't know about you, but when I am on a plane, it is in the air and I am not to my destination yet, I am DAMN glad it is "up"....isn't the other alternative down?  My second observation at this moment was....if the plane "just went up" wouldn't the drinks that were sitting on the tray in front of Lindsay, the lady beside us, myself AND EVERYONE ONE ELSE ON THE PLANE have spilled every where too?  Just curious.)  On with the story...we land in Vegas and are getting ready to deplane when I notice something about the "Intellectually Challenged Klutz's" attire.  One of the girls had on this little dress that barely covered her "junk" and it was SOAKED in Vodka Tonic, one of the other ICK's looked like he had downed an entire gallon of water and didn't quite make it to the potty.  Isn't justice divine?

Checking into the hotel was a breeze, I caught myself thinking "this trip might turn out ok"....shouldn't we know better than to tease ourselves with this line of thinking?  Lindsay and I go see the bride-to-be and her pals in their room and head to our room to call it a night.  Nothing like crawling onto a slab of freshly laundered concrete and curling up with a sandpaper blanket to catch some zzzz's.  Finally, sleep takes over and I am dreaming of beautiful meadows when suddenly a dark figure appears in the meadow with a FOG HORN blaring in my ear....wait, that isn't a dark figure with a fog horn, that would be an obnoxiously loud alarm going off in the hotel.  *sigh* I get up and open the door expecting smoke or fire or a crazy bastard with a gun and I see nothing, NOTHING!  (Oh, by the way, it happens to be 7 A.M.)  I crawl back into the slab and pull the sand paper back over me and try to re-visit the meadows when a VERY, VERY LOUD voice begins speaking to me.  I look at Lindsay as if to get confirmation that she heard them too.  She is wide-eyed and questioning her sanity as well.  So, we both stop to listen to what the voice has to say....."YOU MAY HAVE HEARD AN ALARM.  PLEASE STAY IN YOUR ROOM AND AWAIT FURTHER INSTRUCTIONS.  SECURITY IS CHECKING INTO THIS."  (who knew there was a loud speaker IN our room ABOVE our bed?)  Nice.  Stay in your room so you can get blown up or some weirdo can come kidnap you.....  Do they expect us to go back to sleep now?  Honestly!  Lindsay and I do what any good guest would do, we open the door and look around...no, really, we lie in bed and "await instructions". Are you wondering what those instructions were?  "PLEASE DISREGARD THE ALARM. EVERYTHING IS FINE."  However, they couldn't say this and be done.  No.  They repeated it 10 times, VERY, VERY loudly.  Did I mention VERY?  We gave up, got out of bed for breakfast and went to the little store down stairs to purchase toiletries, thanks to the TSA Nazi's.

SO....later that day, we decide to try out the new toiletries.  Seriously, the shower was the worst thing about the whole trip.  No.  Really.  I turn the handle to hot and cannot believe what comes out, or doesn't, depending on the way you look at it.  There is barely a trickle when it is pointed to hot and you had to turn the handle to cold to have a stream of water very similar to what comes from a garden hose without a nozzle on it.  Washing my hair was a blast.  Bathing was even better.  The Sahara SUCKS!  Never EVER stay there.

Keep in mind, while all of this is going on, I am still having to play "Firefighter" and get the "baby" her ice for her savaged fingers.  Ironically, the rest of the trip was pretty uneventful.  (if you call penis sip cups and penis bopper head bands uneventful....)  We got home relatively unscathed and lived to travel again.

Our next trip was quite interesting too...I should write a book about all the interesting airport antics we experience.  =o)

L8R.
Manda

Gonna take a Trip?.

One might call us accident prone, or clumsy. Personally, I would simply describe us as a disaster in the days before catching our flight to Vegas for Dana's Bachelorette Party. Of course, this is meant in the funniest way possible. Funny. Because people hurting themselves is always funny.

Kidneys are important for several reasons. So, imagine my surprise when 4 days before we're supposed to leave, the act of peeing became painful. Manda suggested I call the doctor. But what rational sense did that make? Really the doctor? Simply because it hurts to pee? Nah. That's a waste of 3 or 4 perfectly good minutes of my day.

What's that saying? Hind site is 20/20?

Two days later, intense abdominal pain finally prompted me to contact my doctor. Personally, I think he overreacted with the suggestion to go the ER. Really, it was just intense abdominal pain. Antibiotics would clear that up.

And they did. What I didn't see coming was my hip going out the very night I started the antibiotics. Yes, one day before our flight to Vegas. Despite the antibiotics, I still had pain while peeing because it hurt to sit down! I tried peeing standing up, but after having to change my socks 3 times, I just gave up on it. Women were just not meant to pee this way.

Two doctor visits and a muscle relaxer later, I found myself taking the puppies out to pee before we left for the airport. This innocent and often repeated act, took a turn for the worse when Garrison's retractable leash attacked me. Yes. Attacked me. Three of my much needed, and often used, fingers were savagely strangled and burned. It hurt. A lot. I screamed. But not a girly scream. I don't want you to get the wrong idea about me.

After throwing the leashes in Manda's direction, I limped, yes limped. (remember the hip thing?) back into the house, and stuck my hand under the faucet. I needed to put out the flames that were arching off my fingers. Unfortunately, *sigh* anyone who lives in Phoenix knows there is no such thing as cold water coming out of a faucet in the summer. Impossible. Not gonna happen. Please try again in 6 months.

At this point I was jumping up and down (This helps the pain. Try it. It works) yelling things I hope small children didn't here. This situation was serious. Thankfully, a firefighter (she was short, blond, really cute.) arrived with ice. It was from the freezer. It was perfect. The pain subsided. Temporarily.

For the next 12 hours, I walked around with an ice pack on my hand. If the ice melted, which it did on occasion, I would cry until additional ice was found. Yes. I was a baby.

Things couldn't get worse could they? Right. I'll let Manda take it from here.

Peace Out.
Lindsay